Hello Ladies & select couples! I am updating my intro since I've just recently ended a long term relationship. I'm hoping this site will be the spark I need to jump start my engines & fantasies! In more detail, I am an open minded, spontaneous, and uninhibited male that loves to please in every way, but loves to receive just as much. Foreplay is a MUST!! I like a woman who is adventurous, can be discreet, a true lady out in public, and open minded in the bedroom. Am I asking 4 too much? Passion, eroticism and intimacy are essential! Otherwise, I love to cook (and not just in the kitchen), read and write poetry, travel and have been known as a "gym rat" when it comes to basketball. Starting off slow in getting to know each other would be ideal. I am d/d free and expect the same (I'm sure you would as well). So, if you like what you are reading and can be discreet when necessary, let me know! Here's to having adult fun!

My Ideal Person The ideal woman I am looking for needs to be confident first and foremost! Body type is of no major importance...your attitude can be a bigger determination of how sexy you are! Someone with a healthy, adventurous and open minded sexual appetite is key!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Prince, Sade, John Coltrane, Esperanza Spalding, Billy
Joel, Adele, Amy Winehouse

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Selma Hayek, Gabrielle Union, Vanessa Williams, Apollonia
Kotero, Sade, Coco, Jessica Alba, Nia Long, Sanaa Lathan

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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