I'm in my forties and I'm finding that it's really hard to find anyone in my own age group who is open minded enough for my taste. What the hell is wrong with wanting to discuss your proclivities rather than making each other guess what they are I ask you? I am a student at a Northwest college, working toward a degree in social work. I'm sarcastic and funny, and I have been known to make stupid puns. I have had many interesting experiences and am a great story teller. Actually, I'm good at a lot of things and I'd love to find someone who'd like to find out what they are. I like to read, and river walk. I second hand occasionally; it fits well with being a student. For the most part I'm busy with school, but I have room for some extra-curricular activities. Are you extra curricular? So, this experience has been sadly lacking in satisfaction. Let's be honest, does anyone out there have a big dick, a hard body, love kink and know how to play?

My Ideal Person Hot, humorous and hard. Intelligence is a plus, though not a requirement.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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