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Grammar, lack of grammar, and culture - 2/4/2020
I am by far not the best with grammar these days, but other
than this site dropping keywords occasionally, I would
like to think I generally get my point across. We do seem
to have our fair share of g
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How to keep sexy lingerie out of the back of the lingerie drawer? - 8/18/2019
Every now and then I get in the mood for new lingerie and the
recent post seeking lingerie sites got my mojo going. I
have to think many women are like me and purchase or receive
as a gift new lingeri
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When to put politics aside - 7/6/2019
This morning on the IM here I had an interesting chat. Kind
of wish I copied and saved the thing, but I will try my best
to convey what was said. This 51yr old single guy with a couples profile,
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Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? - 2/6/2019
I don't get it. Questions like those about the size
of a cock. Or even using myself as an example because I happen
to have a trans history. What drives you to be with people
who have no interest i
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Buzzmode? - 1/17/2019
I've accumulated a lot of points here at HardHookUp.com, so I decided
to use a few and get myself one of those buzz toys. I think
it was something like 75000 points, but saved me $70 by not
having to purchas
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So what do I do? - 9/16/2018
I think I've been on this site for something like 7 years
now following my change of gender. Pretty well been there,
done that, as I learned the ropes of online dating. And I
have met some incredi
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Women, how did ED meds affect your partner? - 9/11/2018
ED meds obviously have their place and sales of the ED meds
show many use them, but are the results what you hoped for?
<br><br>
I know for certain one of my past partners used viagra
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Mixed up with someone else - 8/2/2018
Recently I have received a rash of emails here from men confusing
me with someone else who I actually happen to know. I'm
guessing they are part of the Craigs list crowd now on this
site. This oth
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"Dear" - 5/31/2018
The only place I ever hear the word "Dear" used
anymore is here. It's just not that common around here.
Sure you see it in business letter salutations, but for
that matter, it is left ou
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Rejection replies, how much is enough - 4/23/2018
Probably one of my biggest faults is I try to be nice to everyone
other than the worst of the worst. Being a woman on this site
I inevitably write my share of rejection replies. one of
the things I t
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Here Fido, Fido! - 2/21/2018
Darn dogs have a way of showing up everywhere these days.
Just got to love them. But when it comes to seeing your partner,
meeting, hooking up, however you want to term it, what are
your thoughts abou
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Your exactly what i'm looking for - 1/19/2018
After one or two exchanges of hi, how are you, and are you
keeping warm, someone 2000+ miles away messaged me to say
he was thinking of moving here and how I was exactly what
he was looking for. Isn
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Golf Clubs - 12/31/2017
I find the biggest turn off and quickest way to make me say
not interested is for someone to have a picture of themselves
playing golf. Nothing against the game, but I'm just
turned off by those w
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Makes you wonder - 11/12/2017
In many ways I was different growing up. I didn't date
until after high school, but had a pretty active sex life
in the early years once married. Followed by ups and downs
in a rather ho hum marri
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What is your rationale for the pics you do or don't post? - 10/10/2017
Looking through many of the A/L poster's profiles
along with those who contact me and other who simply pique
my curiosity, somewhere around half have a nude picture
whether of just the genitals or
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I like to have fun here, but... - 9/5/2017
I'm probably one of the handful here who openly says
what I want with little or no concern to how my views conform
to the consensus here. I would like to think even those who
adamantly disagree wi
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Hairy or Shaved? - 9/4/2017
NO, NO, NO. This is not another do you like it hairy or shaved
question. <br><br>
What I wonder about every time the question comes up is how
many of these people actually meet others
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That gut feeling that just won't go away - 8/14/2017
I ended up having a two fer kind of day today. Started off
I had chatted with a gentleman last week and a lot Saturday
morning and was going to actually meet with him for a midday
meal today for our f
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Raunchy Sex? - 7/31/2017
While chatting earlier this evening I was asked on a scale
of 1-10 where I was as far as kinky. Of course I had to say it
depends on ones definition of kinky. He then told me he was
into "raunchy sex
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What Are HardHookUp.com Women Actually Delivering? - 7/25/2017
One of the last questions about men acting as if they are
in heat got me thinking when another member responded to
my answer where I suggested many of the men here are married
and not getting enough a
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Deep Throat, is it just a visual thing or what? - 7/13/2017
I like giving the men I'm with bj's, and some I can
manage deep throating. No real rhyme or reason on which
ones I can and can't. I still have my tonsils so maybe
that has something to do with it. I k
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What would you do for better grades? - 5/16/2017
I received an email this morning from a gentleman from out
of the country. Although it was written to try to make it
sound personal, I'm sure it was a mass mailing. <br><br>
I don
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Why must NSA mean discreet? - 4/18/2017
I'm calling bullshit on everyone wanting to be discreet
and saying they are seeking NSA sex but are single. Maybe
if you are a Catholic Priest or something, but otherwise
I don't care if you are the
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It's not all about sex? - 3/24/2017
I have a FWB who I see quite frequently and yesterday he said
he would try and get by today. He has a general idea of my work
schedule and today arrived a little late to do our thing
before I had to h
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Are you letting your woman sleep? - 2/12/2017
I just read a great article about how getting a good nights
sleep for women goes a long way towards better sex. As the
article pointed out and many of the women here have said
in the past, a lot of se
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What happens when you move a little to the left? - 2/2/2017
You can look at 100 pictures of vaginas and come away with
100 different ideas what it must feel like to have sex with
each one, at least that is my thought on the subject.
My question i
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Why would a poster allow only friends? - 1/27/2017
I was scrolling through the advice lines recently and came
across several questions where the poster was only allowing
their friends to post. Seems odd to me, but whatever. I'm
just curious why someon
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Points for replies, where else? - 1/19/2017
Another member was curious about how I amassed my points
as quickly as I do. I told him lately most of my points are
coming from replying to emails, which really surprised
him. I seem to recall someti
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Are you seeking the unobtainable? - 12/31/2016
I had a nice email conversation with a gentleman here this
morning. There was no reason to believe he was anything
other than a decent person. However he said somethings
I wonder if he realized he sai
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What do you do for stamina? - 12/28/2016
For starters I am not talking about how you hold off your
orgasm as to allow your partner to enjoy one first. For that
there have been umpteen million solutions pointed out
from extended foreplay to n
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